Most of what little they did have to say to me turned out to be very wrong. I learned so many things the hard way. I usually tell people "I have wisdom born of pain".
I have been a little obstinate with God about this thing of talking stuff over with Him. I suddenly realized (Revelation) that He is doing His best to be a good Father. I never had someone like a Dad to sit and discuss life with me and help me make wise choices about whatever is happening in my day or life. I guess that is why it took so long for me to get this truth. When I wasn't so busy it came more natural to me to think longer about stuff and I got more spirit filled downloads without thinking about it . I guess you call that taking it for granted.
My mindset these days is let Father God be Dad and speak more into my life. I truly want to be God's child not he worlds adult.
Let us all take time to go to Dad and sit awhile and talk thing over.