This morning the Holy Spirit put some light on this for me. Jesus was explaining how if you are in intimate relationship with the Father like He is, then you will have a relationship that produces a no doubt heart.
Once I told God I was not good at relationship. He said; " That was OK because I Am. Keep perusing the usness. John 17:21-22. '
To prepare myself to respond to God I quote scripture to my self that help me remember how much I am loved and cared for. I bring to my memory moments when His presence made me know it. I try to make a habits to check in regularly through the day to make sure we (meaning me) are on track. It is so easy slip into the my thing instead of the us thing.
What do you do to make closeness in a relationship with someone you love and you know loves you? What do you do to make usness?