He is a good Father and wants to help but a good Father doesn't take over and fix all the problems. A good Father walks and talks with his child through the problems of life. He is the God of relationship not of dictatorship. He is about training a child up in the way he should go . The word way seems to be a more important word than I had thought before.
Jesus arrives on the planet and becomes involved and participates in the human condition. He by His life and death He relieved us of the sin nature. The nature that wants to make itself its own god, and do it it's own way.. We were created to do life in concert with God. When we turned around and accepted Him and started walking toward He put His spirit in you . That is the same devine nature that was in Jesus when He walked the earth. He loves us and desires to be apart of the earth plan He created. When He finished creating He said this is good. When we are in concert with heaven it is all good. Your body , your ornery flesh is good. your job is good enough even if you hate it because God is in it with you to change the whole experience.
Your boss may dislike you but right now you are walking with God and He is teaching you His way of handling things. He is the instructor of wisdom. He is the dispenser of strategies and creative ideas. His plan was always to teach you to overcome the world and then He kicks in the bonus power. It seems to be His good pleasure to to be in the mess of our life to help us through not take us over and out.
My total knee replace has been a very painful experience . I so wanted to have a miracle. My miracle perhaps has been that I recognize I am loved by Him. Resting in the place of being loved allowed me to experience Him and be comforted by Him. When a friend comes to stand by you in your hour of need they can't take away your pain but their very presence fortifies you somehow to get through. The day I accepted Him and His truth there was a knowing I would never be alone again. He is a promise keeper. Who do you think He wants to be for you today?