When I have surrendered all I find my true heart and His. It is always about how loved I am by Him and how much love is in me to give to Him. Giving Him everything is simpler there. Accepting everything is too. It doesn't matter how differently things turn out . The thing that truly matters is I am with Him in this adventure of life. I am learning about Him and experiencing Him in new ways. The relationship is growing.
I didn't used to make the relationship the main thing. My life, my agenda used to be the main thing . There are things God helps us with while we are on the way to Him . That is a special grace He gives us. There comes a point in the relationship where things change . It is like any normal human relationship I think . First you meet and get acquainted. You spend time together, do stuff with and for each other. When you decide to commit to each other the relationship shifts to developing an USness. I think many divorces happen because this doesn't happen and the two maintain individuality with no compromise for the USness factor to develop in there relationship. It is like a blending of flavors like a chocolate banana shake or a cherry coke.
You taste both but together they are special. It is important that both express their true hearts for love to flourish.
Best adventure yet to come!!