O course conversations are two way. The Holy Spirit is always there to help and coach us if we are willing to listen. My instruction was to practice saying "Bless you Brother"as a response. I thought that isn't being very real. The Holy Spirit response was;"What reality do you want to live in? The Devils reality is the one with the expletives. Kingdom reality is bless you brother. Then now you have given him to us to deal with. We can handle it from here.
Now the decision is mine. What reality do I want to live in? Am I willing to die to self to live in it?