I am no longer concerned with obeying God and rules. My focus is on agreeing with God and participating with Them in whatever task is at hand. The harmony of that starts in spending time alone with God like you would need in any relationship. Time where I can honestly speak my mind and wait in the presence for the responses. I give space in my activities to see the evidence of the providence of God around me and not move in haste.
I am confident that God is good so I can remain at peace as I trust for instruction and outcome in all situations . It does not matter what chaos is around me. Children do that . They get up in Dad's arms and trust Him to work things out for their welfare.