Her father worked with septic tanks and the word shit was a common fracze at home , even though they were church going christians. Because that is her background she uses many toilet analogies in her lectures.
I am not offended , I get her point. Others however really are. She received a call from a client one day who was very excited . She was excited that she was getting over her religious spirit and fears of doing and saying the wrong thing. She arrived at this conclusion because she missed her exit on the freeway and said shit out loud in her car. This was particularly notable to her because she was on her way to her very religious parents . These are parents who go out of their way to point out how she doesn't live up to the vision they have for her inside their box.
A long time ago, when I was trying to eliminate the F-bomb from my vocabulary, God was more than patient with me. He showed me learning to speak blessing instead of cursing is in he best interest of others and myself. He also showed me it is a process and you don't change overnight. He let me know he has heard it all and is not shocked. I am so glad or all this wonderful amazing grace. All sin weighs the same in His eyes . Our sin is not a particular act , it is a state of the soul. A constant question in my mind is, what am I trying to prove in my words and deeds . Is it demoing Love care compassion. I often catch myself doing and saying something less admirable. It helps me change to stop and admit to God what is really happening and repent to him. Sometimes I have to confess to someone else and maybe apologize. Most of the time it is just between us . I learn my lesson and do better next round again and again until I get it.
It seems God is in the business of schooling us on the aspects of life. If your religious maybe you need to say shit once in a while . When you have a trucker mouth you need to change your expinatives. If you are a spender You need to learn to be thrifty. If your a miser or have a poverty mentality, you probably need to spend some money . Perhaps you even need to give some away.
A close relationship with the Father Son and Holy Spirit brings you to knowing how loving , kind, and grace filled this circle is and a safe place. Heaven is for you not against you. It fills you with Blessings.